Counseling in a Crisis
by Gregg Krech Ten years ago, my colleague Lenn Murphy was asked to be on a crisis counseling team to assist families in the aftermath of the World Trade Center disaster. Lenn had trained at the ToDo Institute and I...Continue reading "Counseling in a Crisis"
What You Think Isn't What It Is
by Gregg Krech Bayes, an eighteenth-century mathematician, said that “what we believe to be the state of the world is the product of two things: your prior assumptions and your sensory information. If your sensory information is very specific,...Continue reading "What You Think Isn't What It Is"
Make Effort, Not Outcomes, Your Focus
by Gregg Krech Whenever we’re facing a challenging situation, one of the wisest things we can do is take a few minutes to distinguish between what’s controllable and what isn’t controllable. This is one of the key elements of psychiatrist...Continue reading "Make Effort, Not Outcomes, Your Focus"
Where East Meets West: Morita Therapy and Acceptance Commitment Therapy (ACT)
by Dr. Richard Blonna Introduction Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), is a “third-generation” form of Cognitive Behavior Therapy (CBT) that became prominent in the Western psychotherapeutic community in the early 2000’s in America (Hayes, 2004, 2005). In many ways, ACT...Continue reading "Where East Meets West: Morita Therapy and Acceptance Commitment Therapy (ACT)"
Arugamama: The Challenge of Acceptance
Most strong-willed people consistently try to control the external conditions of life. In some cases these external conditions can be controlled; but in other cases (for example, the weather) they cannot be controlled. Perhaps most common is our tendency to try to control other people�what they do, what they think of us or how they feel. To be blunt, this effort to try to control external conditions often gets us into trouble. So we need to learn the wisdom and skill of simply accepting what is. Life cannot always be the way we want it to be. Our plans rarely go according to plan. Flexibility and acceptance are qualities that help us live more wisely�spiritually as well as psychologically.Continue reading "Arugamama: The Challenge of Acceptance"
Dancing with the Dragon (of Depression)
After 22 years, I completed my Bachelors degree in Psychology. I did what needed to be done despite my feelings. I help others, victims of crime and violence, to practice their lives. I help them to be productive and grateful, to direct their attention to the moment -- not to what came before, but to the here and now. I help them to dance with their dragons, as I have learned to do. For our dragons will always be part of us. It is a matter of accepting them, embracing them as our greatest teachers. They remind us that our feelings are always changing, shifting, like the Japanese sky. And it's not what's at the end of the road, but the journey which deserves our attention and for which we can be grateful. Thank you, Dragon.Continue reading "Dancing with the Dragon (of Depression)"